Let your child know you care about their future.

Give them some good reasons why you don’t want them to drink. Encourage them to add to your list.

  • You want them to do well in school.
  • You want them to have self-respect.
  • You want them to stay safe and healthy.
  • You want them to stay out of trouble.
  • You want them to grow up to realize their full potential.
  • You don’t want them to face the long-term challenges of alcoholism later in life.

Don’t just tell your kids not to drink. Help them stay away from situations where underage drinking can occur.

Good ways to help them not start drinking:

  • Don’t wait to bring the topic up — let them know that underage drinking matters to you and that you will be paying attention.
  • Let them know you understand there will be pressures to drink, and they can come talk to you about it.
  • Boredom is one reason kids start drinking. Help them pursue activities — sports, the school play, band, Scouts, 4-H — that help them dream and develop their gifts and self-esteem. When kids are busy and part of a productive group, they’re less likely to turn to negative things like alcohol.
  • Let them know you love them, you value them and that they matter. When kids feel like they have a strong sense of identity and security, they’re less likely to seek approval and succumb to peer pressure later.
Illustration of girl reaching for alcohol bottles.

7 in 10 PA parents don’t keep the alcohol in their home secured.

85% of underage drinkers get their alcohol from their home or a friend’s.

Tip: Get to know your child’s friends and their parents. Find out how alcohol is kept secure in their home before your child spends time there.

Dear Parent

The more you learn about underage drinking, the more confident you will feel talking to your child about it.