Your kids look up to you as their role model.
Whatever you say to your children about avoiding alcohol, they will also be observing how you use alcohol. They take their cues from you, so:
- While you may want to pour yourself a drink after a long day at work, it’s better not to give your kids the message that alcohol is a problem solver by coming home and saying out loud that you’ve had a bad day and need a drink.
- If your kids are in the room or nearby, use alcohol moderately; don’t appear intoxicated in front of your kids. Don’t let them overhear stories of a night out drinking with your girlfriends or buddies.
- Be conscious of what you’re posting online, especially if your kids can see what you’re posting. Memes about alcohol as “Mommy juice” or “This is why Daddy drinks” can make alcohol sound like a cool joke that kids want to be in on.
- If you’re having a family dinner at a restaurant, have conversations in front of your kids about who is driving home after a parent has been drinking. Let your kids see that you will never drink and drive or ride in a car with a driver who has been drinking.
- When you are entertaining adults and kids are in the house, let kids see that you are including alcohol-free beverages and plenty of food, and that you are making sure everyone has a safe ride home.
7 in 10 PA parents don’t keep the alcohol in their home secured.
85% of underage drinkers get their alcohol from their home or a friend’s.
Tip: Get to know your child’s friends and their parents. Find out how alcohol is kept secure in their home before your child spends time there.
Don’t become discouraged if you think they don’t hear you. You will usually find out that they are listening.